A Sauna Dating
Experience for
Queer Men
July 16 · 8:30–10:30pm
Hosted by @thebrianlamy
When apps lead to dead ends and happy hours ask you to perform, we're bringing dating back to its simplest form — an analog evening where queer men actually meet each other in person, before the date.
Early bird tickets drop
tomorrow at 11am.
Want in? Tickets drop in
You're on the list.
We'll text and email you tomorrow at 11am with the early bird link.
The Kindling
Effective: July 1, 2026
This Privacy Policy describes how The Kindling, operated by Brian Lamy (hello@brianlamy.com), collects, uses, and protects your personal information when you sign up for early bird access through our website.
When you submit the sign-up form, we collect:
We use your contact information solely to:
We do not sell, rent, or share your personal information with third parties for their own marketing purposes.
By providing your phone number, you consent to receive recurring automated SMS messages from The Kindling. Message frequency will vary. Message and data rates may apply. Reply STOP to unsubscribe at any time, or HELP for assistance.
By providing your email address, you consent to receive email updates from The Kindling. You may unsubscribe at any time via the unsubscribe link in any email or by contacting us directly.
We use Klaviyo to manage and send our SMS and email communications. Their privacy policy is available at klaviyo.com/legal/privacy.
We retain your contact information for as long as you remain subscribed. Upon a removal request, your information will be deleted from active marketing lists within 10 business days.
You have the right to access, correct, or delete your personal information at any time. Contact us at hello@brianlamy.com.
Our services are intended for individuals 18 years of age or older.
Questions? Contact Brian Lamy at hello@brianlamy.com.
The Kindling
Effective: July 1, 2026
These Terms & Conditions govern your use of The Kindling website and notification services, operated by Brian Lamy (hello@brianlamy.com). By signing up, you agree to these terms.
The Kindling is an alcohol- and substance-free sauna dating experience for queer men hosted at Othership Williamsburg and other venues. Event details including dates, times, and pricing are subject to change. Signing up for notifications does not guarantee ticket availability or admission.
By providing your contact information, you expressly consent to receive recurring SMS and email messages from The Kindling about tickets and event updates. Message and data rates may apply for SMS. You may opt out at any time by replying STOP (SMS) or using the unsubscribe link (email).
You must be 18 years of age or older to sign up or attend events. The Kindling events are open to gay, bi, trans, queer, and non-binary men and individuals.
Attendees must arrive sober. This event is alcohol- and substance-free. Anyone under the influence will be asked to leave without refund. No phones are permitted during the event experience. The Kindling reserves the right to refuse admission to anyone who violates event policies or creates an unsafe environment for other attendees.
Tickets are sold through a third-party ticketing platform subject to its own terms. Tickets are generally non-refundable except in the event of cancellation by The Kindling or as required by law.
The Kindling and Brian Lamy are not liable for any indirect, incidental, or consequential damages arising from use of our services or attendance at events. Total liability shall not exceed the amount paid for your event ticket.
All branding and materials associated with The Kindling are the property of Brian Lamy. Unauthorized use or reproduction is prohibited.
These terms are governed by the laws of the State of New York.
Questions? Contact Brian Lamy at hello@brianlamy.com.